Monday, April 18, 2011

Make Others Your Respect


Do you feel neglected, not properly treated, or people do not heed yourself or your opinion? Do not worry, you're not alone. You also should not feel afraid because there are specific ways to overcome them.
How to make others respect you? To make other people respect us is to first respect ourselves. Feelings about yourself will determine how others behave toward us. If you want to get the award, usually it appears also in your attitude to others.
Our feeling is actually "created" by ourselves. There is no one who can make you feel nervous, guilty, or ashamed. If a particular feeling, it's because you are storing those feelings in you. Surely you do something for these feelings. However, the first to do adalha recognize that feelings of inferiority to you comes from within yourself.

A theory is proven true saying, if you want to be respected by others, then you have to train them to treat you like you're being terhadpa them. When people see that you are always being respectful, then others will do the same to you.
Which should be disclosed:
1. Be proud of your achievements when it is finished successfully. Do not take it as a mere luck. All this happened because of your hard work.
2. Say "thank you" to people who praise you without feeling embarrassed.
3. Express your feelings, for example, you have to dare to say "I love you" to someone you really love.
4. Admit your mistakes, when making a mistake. Make mistakes is human. Everyone who has ever done. All you need do is acknowledge it with full responsibility, taking lessons from mistakes made, and try to fix it.
5. If someone threatened with a word-Katan, then you can fight it, with words as well. No need to shout.
6. Do not insult someone else. Someone that respects himself never demeaning others so she still feels is above the individual.
What to do:
1. Walk with confidence. Lift your head. Rest assured that you do walk the right way.
2. Dress neatly "as if" you really pay attention to your body. Note also the neatness and personal hygiene.
3. Try something new each week - a magazine for the latest issue, a new television show, new food, or new acquaintances with whom you can talk.
4. Follow your heart desires. Think of something that Andaingin someone else do it for you, then do yourself to yourself.
Which must be believed:
1. Convinced that your view of yourself personally is more important than what others are saying about you.
2. Alone it does not mean lonely. Loneliness basically comes from within yourself. Even life itself, you can feel lonely, while many people feel very lonely even though they are in a noisy environment.
3. Feel confident that you are valuable. Whether or not there are people who love you.
4. Recognizing that the past is still the past. No matter how often ponder, you will not be able to change it.
5. Are you sure that you are worthy because you are you, not anyone else. Respect yourself as a person.
Know Your apat build and change your life everyday. It's never too late to be a person who can appreciate yourself. Good luck!
(Source: Intisari Online)

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