• Time
The relationship of parents - children who either take time to enable them come together physically. Not for hours. Importantly, parents consistently spend time with the kids almost every day. When with them, minimize distractions and concentrate our attention to them. Time is the cornerstone of good parenting buffer.
• Be a good listener
When the children to know that we really listen to what they say, they will be more eager to share their feelings and thoughts. Conversely, if parents thought their children or degrading "diligent" criticizing his words, the child will pull away and choose to be closer to friends. Therefore, if you want to have influence in the lives of children, be a good listener. They will receive when we help them solve problems.